**Please note: because I am a standard member, I can't view most profiles nor can I flirt. So please feel free to email me but also include a little bit about yourself :) I am looking for my long term match. Friends are also good but I'm not looking forcasual hookups or men that are attached to someone else in any way. No judgement, just currently not my preference. I am a positive per that enjoys living life to the fullest. I enjoy the little things and I enjoy pleasing my partner...in a safe and loving environment. I will never be skinny but exercising and eating well are important to me. When I say I am open minded, it is almost to the extreme. I have very few limits and feed off of variety. I have learned through the years that vanilla is not a good match for me. Power exchange, rope and pain are all essential.

My Ideal Person My ideal match is a man that isn't ready to sit on the couch 24/7. He wants to explore and enjoy the amazing things that life has to offer. He is open, honest and a good listener. He has made his share of mistakes just like the rest of us and has learned and moved on. He sees the value in staying healthy and will take that journey with me (with a splurge now and then of course). He would also be a non-smoker, my allergies just can't handle it.

And he can relate to the last two paragraphs in my "about me" section. If you don't get those two concepts, we won't get past friends

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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